Talk about it, at least. The best way to have great sex the way you want it is to assert your desires. Many people are too afraid of their own kinks and quirks to enjoy sex, don't be one of those people.
Unless you met at a sex party or club, you might want to stick to plain vanilla sex a few times just to establish some basic trust. And remember to negotiate before hand.
1:07 DTMFA. Not being up for light bondage means he won't be hope for anything else fun either. Screw that. Find a man thats into it, or at least willing to try.
I had some freaky ass chick handcuff me then take the condom off my dick and proceed to fuck me telling me" I want your baby!" don't ever let a girl handcuff u
Nebraska repesent? Huh? What the hell do you possibly know to "represent"?No scholls there so you never made it to grammer class? Present your ass to class and quit shucking and jiving to that ghetto talk, yea represent and shit homey.
10:48 Good for you, but liking bondage and handcuff's is gender neutral. You don't like them because you have a Y chromosome, you like it because you're into it.
I surprised my girlfriend with a pair of the ones that slip over any door the day after our first date. Of course, she had let slip to me that she really really wanted a pair when she was drunk a week before that, so it wasn't a big risk on my part. Only downside is that between her being sick, or roommates being home at the wrong time, etc, we haven't gotten to use 'em yet. But we have 'em, and she wants to, and even better, she wants me... so I'm happy. /sappy crap
Handcuffs ftw.
I always run the risk of freaking out the person I am with because I like it rough and crazy, but if he isn't into that I don't push it. So at least have sex a couple times first.
1:17 - I know! It's not like I'm asking to have him shackled and blindfolded too... I just think it'd be fun, especially because every time I go down on him he always grabs my hands so I can't use them to make it better.
Fats Waller wrote an awesome song called "Find Out What They Like". They lyrics go 'Find out what they like and how they like it and let 'em have it just that way!" Listen to Fats!!!
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