I usually require two days per week of alone time. This does not mean I need a new bitch to deal with it means I need a brief respite from the current one. Time by yourself is amazing, most people cannot be happy alone and therefore must surround themselves with fake friends and idle inane chatter.
alone time means your whiney and needy and dont let him play video games or jerk off. be thankful he is not inviting you over to watch him do one or both.
Leave him to his man cave (Hi, HJ!) so he can do all the stuff mentioned in 5:35, psycho bitch! I hope he dumps your clingy ass because you won't let him poop and watch sports in peace.
5:14 It has nothing to do with being an introvert, just because someone doesn't want to spend ALL their time with someone doesn't make them an introvert. Everyone needs personal space.
Eh, I as a girl need more alone time than my boyfriend does. You'd be surprised how annoyed a guy can get when the tables are turned and the girlfriend wants a day to herself without having to talk to the boyfriend.
it means that you shouldn't fucking smother him and let him have his own time too. can't he have his own life or must it revolve around you? needy bitch
and 4:14 makes a very good point.
Way to fucking overanalize it. He just wants a day off. Most guys AREN'T actually cheating liars, just like all girls aren't whores. If you're that immature that you can't handle one day without him,you're getting way obssesive maybe you need to grow up a little. Jesus. Im a girl, FYI.
He is currently naked while playing halo and getting head from your little sister/hotter friend. good luck with that clingy bitch thing, hope it helps you hang on to a winner.
5:51 and 8:26 = totally on point.
My ex pulled the same shit, but when I needed time alone, he thought I was cheating/talking to someone else.
Just proves that guys can be totally insecure and selfish.
Unlike sluts, whores, and girls in general, when a guy usually says something...we mean it literally. We don't in code like our vagina-wielding counterparts.
if your wanting to spend more time with him, questioning his man-cave time is only going to make him want to spend less with you, or break it off. if only all girls could figure things like this out, that guys usually actually mean what they say, whereas with girls it means something else.
guys... all she said was "should i be concerned?" how is that clingy? she's not even sure she should be worried about him saying that. and the response was probably a joke.
grow up.
It's called, leave him the fuck alone. I'm a girl, and I need alone time, too. I guess that's because most of my friends throughout my whole life have been guys. It also probably explains my sexual appetite.
Alone time means alone time. I love my gf and spend most of my spare time with her but sometimes i like to partake in activities that she doesnt enjoy, like jacking off and playing xbox, so i do that by myself. If you insist on reading into it than all it means is masturbation and video games.
No matter how stressful or easy their lives are, all guys need some "don't talk to me" time each day. It's called "the cave."
Don't question it, just respect it. Also...tell him when you talk you don't always want a solution, just somebody to listen and say, "oh, ok. Interesting. Hmmmm."
wow it seems like a lot of guys here just hate females in general. are most girls really that clingy and annoying? in my last relationship, my boyfriend would get mad at me if I had to study for a test and time me to see how long it took.
"vagina wielding counterparts?" yeah you're a virgin.
nope, some guys are actually sensitive and aren't locked into the BS restricted emotionality enforced on most guys from birth and by society that they can't get away from. not to say that's what he's doing, he could easily be a guy talking BS not to hurt your feelings, but in even saying that he's caring about the feelings of whoever's he's talking to. if he were being "honest" he wouldn't need to bullshit and would be blunt and obnoxious about it.
God damn can all if you men who post on this site wear shirts that say DOUCHE in big red letters so I can stay the fuck away from you at all times? Sweet Jesus.
Word up 3:03.. I like being around people and am very sociable but after that period just need solitude to get myself together, as I'm otherwise a pretty private person. Lots of acquaintances, few close friends. I prefer it that way. Girl here, but I went out with a guy who couldn't understand that and it ended pretty quickly for that reason.
no it doesn't mean he's cheating. my boyfriend said the same thing to me, it just means that he wants to do what he wants to do whenever he wants to without having to answer to you...give him space..believe me if he's telling you he needs his alone time then give it to him because if you don't he'll leave you & then youll have no one to blame but yourself
"lmao @ all the men here getting offended. are you afraid that women have found out your secret?
July 11, 2009 6:38PM"
If you truly believe that, you are a retard. Please don't ever breed. Ever.
ugh! quit being such a clingy bitch for a second! if you weren't so obnoxious in the first place he probably would not need alone time. I am sick of your clingy ass from just that one text!
It's all about timing, people need alone time just as much as they need time together. If both of your needs are synced then no one will have hurt feelings or feel smothered. Also, some people are just generally paranoid or insecure, turning this into a war of the sexes is just childish.
completely false. its just that dealing with the incessant word vomit about girl drama and forced interest in the new haircuts, clothes, and/or jewelry you expect us to care about is arduous and tiresome.
or you're just annoying.
could go either way.
alone just means he wants time alone--i mean of course he could be cheating but he could also be doing any number of other things. i would just back off a little bit, give him alone time and enjoy your alone time (i like playing final fantasy in my underwear too!!!) and getting stoned and watching absolutely fabulous :)
8:35, 90 percent of chicks speak in code and always put different and double meanings behind things...basically, this girl sounds like a psycho, and your bf probably didnt trust you for a good reason
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