You will stare at the young girls with the high tits who flirt with young studs like you did years from now. Looking back, you now realize your flirtatious ways were a mistake. Today's youth ignore your advise like you ignored your elders. You sigh, cry a bit and order another vodka tonic. The beat goes one.
If you don't think a relationship with only one person is for you, don't try to be monogamous. You'll just end up hurting the person you're trying to be with because you can't commit.
Nothing or no one is suited for monogamy. Read the studies even the monogamous birds cheat. This is where open relationships come into play. I am in one and I have a stronger marriage than anyone I know.
I'm not speaking for everyone, but most people who really love their partner wouldn't want them to stray out of the relationship, even if it meant they could. And there are many out there who ARE suited for monogamy.
I respectfully disagree with your idea that loving your partner means you don't want them to stray. I've been in closed and open relationships both, and when I was in an open relationship I cheered the guy I loved on. I wasn't afraid of losing him, and I wanted him to have some fun as well. At the end of the day, we always came home to each other. "Really loving someone" doesn't necessarily mean anything about how that love is carried out.
You can't say 'nothing or no one' is suited for monogamy. There are loads of people who go through life never cheating on anyone, never straying from their vowels, and never needing anyone but who they're with.
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